It’s not something you learn, it’s a mindset you practice.” “…vulnerability is not a technique or tactic.
It also means providing that same respect to the women and men you meet. It means being confident in yourself and respecting the person that you are. This doesn’t mean developing an attitude of indifference or being an asshole. But if you want to be more attractive to the people around you, learn to practice non-neediness. They need validation, support, or a host of other things. What is your intention? Are you trying to impress her (needy) and therefore bragging? Or are you sharing yourself (vulnerability) and therefore polarizing her?”Ī lot of people struggle romantically because they are needy. “Hopefully, you’re catching on by now: it’s intention. “The key to non-neediness is to have both: respect for both oneself and for women.” Nothing beats showing your full personality and quirks and finding someone who appreciates those qualities. If you want to be successful romantically, following a list of the best tips and tricks may lead you to have a few good nights, but in the long-run, nothing beats being able to be yourself. “Until you learn to trust your own actions and learn to pursue women with your own unique style and personality, you have learned absolutely nothing.”
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